‘Anyone
can become angry – that is easy; but to be angry
with the right person, to the right degree, at the right
time – that is not easy.’ Aristotle.
The Nichomachean Ethics
Anger
is a natural state of arousal everyone experiences,
involving the well known ‘fight or flight’
survival mechanism. However, a chronically angry person
is typically more stupid than he or she needs to be,
because higher brain function is inhibited through the
release of powerful stress hormones. Anger needs to
be effectively controlled and utilized.
People who may describe themselves as having ‘anger
issues’ are generally seeking to control the kinds
of inappropriate and extreme expressions of anger that
can have effects harmful to their own health and social
relationships as well as being dangerous to others.
Chronic
extreme anger
can lead to :
•
accelerated
heart rate
•
high
blood pressure
•
raised
cholesterol levels
•
heart
attacks and strokes
and other stress symptoms, such
as insomnia, digestive problems, IBS etc.
Human
Givens therapists
working with these concerns will teach clients a range
of skills including:
•
how to recognize the signs of an ‘emotional hi-jacking’
•
physical and pscyhological strategies to bring down
arousal
•
various other effective relaxation skills
•
how to re-frame situations and encourage empathy
•
the use of guided imagery to develop more effective
patterns
•
how to increase practical emotional intelligence
In some cases, troubling past experiences may need to
be dealt with through de-traumatising procedures. Unhelpful
thought patterns around anger may need to be re-assessed.
Unmet needs
and negative life situations making a person more prone
to angry outbursts may need to be thoroughly considered.
Counsellors work with clients to develop practical solutions
and ways forward, taking fully into account their unique
circumstances and character.
Number
of sessions required will vary depending on the individual
and on whether other related challenges have to be addressed.
Considerable improvement is frequently reported after
just one session.
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